Knowing the right things to ask makes a big difference. Here are 4 things I keep in mind when preparing questions for clients:
- Great questions often start with a “what” or a “how”.
- Having 2 or 3 powerful questions prepared in advance eases my anxiety.
- Powerful questions are positive, clear, fun to ask, and future-oriented.
- If I’m not genuinely curious about the answer, I shouldn’t ask the question.
“To ask the right question is already half the solution to a problem.” – Carl Jung
When I was going through the life coach certification process, I was encouraged to keep a list handy of my favorite questions. Although this list has been refined, for over a decade now, I’ve kept this list with me.
My 10 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients
- What’s an issue you’re facing, that if you figured it out, would make a huge difference?
- What opportunities do you have right now?
- How would you act if you were 10 times bolder?
- Describe, in detail, your ideal llife in 10 years?
- How do you want to be remembered, by those you love, when you’re gone?
- What changes do you need to make to have the life you want?
- What does “success” in this area look like?
- What’s important to you about accomplishing this?
- What do you want?
- What do you like about yourself (interests, life experiences, personality traits, etc.)?
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Bonus – These almost made my top 10 list. Actually, they’re just as good as the top 10.
11. What energizes you? (i.e., after you engage this activity, you’re encouraged)
12. If you had success in this area in 90 days, what changes would have made?
13. If you were more confident, how would people know?
14. How can you view that differently? What’s another perspective?
15. What has worked in the past here?
16. What else? Please tell me more about that.
17. What support do you need? How can you get that support?
18. What would your ideal daily schedule look like?
19. If you are saying “yes” to that, what are you saying “no” to?
20. What would you do here if success was guaranteed?
How To Use These Questions
Take the time to ask yourself each of these and write out your answers. Be honest with yourself. Self-honesty is one of the most challenging, revealing, and rewarding personal growth activities.
Powerful questions help you identify real issues you might be avoiding, and recognize solutions you might be ignoring. My hope is these questions transform your life, the lives of your clients, and the lives of those you love.
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